What Is Your Attachment Style?
Secure · anxious · avoidant · fearful-avoidant
The pattern you keep repeating in love is usually a signal, not a coincidence.
Attachment styles often begin where safety once broke down, and keep speaking long after the original hurt is over.
Secure
Closeness feels possible without panic, and distance does not immediately feel like danger.
Anxious
Love can feel vivid but unstable, so reassurance starts carrying more weight than it should.
Avoidant
Care is real, but too much intimacy can register as pressure, dependence, or loss of control.
Fearful-Avoidant
You may long for closeness and brace against it at the same time, which makes love feel confusing fast.
15 questions4 core styles4 min